Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Jubilee Christmas

"...We are surrounded by those in need of our attention, our encouragement, our support, our comfort, our kindness.... We are the Lord's hands here upon the earth, with the mandate to serve and to lift His children. He is dependent upon each of us."
--Thomas S. Monson

Every December, the Lafayette Urban Ministry (a partnership of 40 different congregations in Lafayette and West Lafayette) puts on Jubilee Christmas. On a Saturday in December, churches invite parents from needy families to their buildings and provide Christmas for them. My church calling included coordinating the The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Lafayette 2nd Ward's) Jubilee. We sponsored 10 families this year.

It started with ornaments. I thought mine looked pretty darn cute. Each one had a festive paper cutout (stockings, stars, bells, and trees) all outlined with glitter (had I known the project required 165 of them, I probably would have cut the flow of creativity a little--oh well). Each ornament represented a $15 gift, $5 stocking stuffer, $25 gift card, or other donation.

I put all of the ornaments in neat little organized piles and took them to the church building along with our Christmas tree. Ward members chose ornaments from the tree and returned the specified items to our Toy Box. I emptied it twice a week and hauled the toys back to our little apartment, making a list and checking it twice (or three or four or five times). By the week of Jubilee, an entire room was stacked with toys: Barbies, Tonka Trucks, board games, scooters, and one humongous stuffed gorilla.

On the day of Jubilee the church was transformed into a Toy Shop, complete with a stocking stuffer room and gift wrapping stations. With the help of volunteers, parents chose 3 gifts and 3 stocking stuffers for each of their children and wrapped them. Each family received a plate of donated goodies, a Christmas ham, and gift cards for groceries. I loved watching parents "shop" for their kids, and I know my heart grew at least 3 sizes!!

Initially, I thought we were asking too much from our ward, which is mostly comprised of students and young families struggling to make ends meet themselves. Their generosity warmed my heart. Families gave more than what was asked and though I worried we would come up short, we experienced a surplus! Several large bags of donated toys remained after Jubilee and were donated to additional families.

Giving really is better than receiving! In all, 606 families in our area--including over 1,800 children--were blessed by the efforts of Jubilee. As President Thomas S. Monson said, "Giving, not getting, brings to full bloom the Christmas spirit. To catch the real meaning of the 'spirit of Christmas', we need only drop the last syllable, and it becomes the 'Spirit of Christ'."

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Rice Cereal? Yum-o!

First bite...
"What the...?"

Success!

It wasn't long before she took things into her own hands...

A Sheepish Editor's Note

The inevitable is happening. A certain little someone consumes every aspect of our blog. This shouldn't be surprising, because right now life is all about baby, but I'm still amazed at how anything interesting around here involves the kid!

After this I promise I'll try to start posting about other things too...Okay...maybe promise is too strong a word.

I'll try. Yes, I'll try really, really hard.

That being said, here comes Elise!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Please Don't Smoke Around Me!

Elise got her 4 month shots last week. Considering her last immunization session (which proved to be traumatizing for both Mommy and Baby), we prepared with a dose of baby Tylenol and kept the binky nearby. We also opted to visit the County Health Department this time and avoid the outrageous cost of shots at the pediatrician's office ($475?? Holy moly).

Our nurse was cute and talkative, and Elise loved her. She started with an oral vaccine that she said tasted sugary. Little Bit drank it with gusto and grinned up at her new friend the whole time. Then came the shots--two in the left thigh. The nurse moved so fast that Elise didn't cry at first, then she realized what happened and broke down for a few seconds. I popped in the binky and gave her loves, and she calmed right down. Two Bugs Bunny band-aids, $10 donation and a complementary rattle later, the kid was all smiles.

I took a few pictures at home to commemorate the event, and noticed the words printed on the rattle in English and Spanish: "Please don't smoke around me!" Nice. Thank you Tippecanoe County Health Department!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Good Morning!

Sometimes Elise is up all night. I've fed, burped, and rocked at all hours, slept on the floor next to the crib until I felt carpet bumps indented on my cheek, and changed diapers with no recollection of even doing it. I've even attempted to swaddle and burp my poor sleeping husband in foggy states of midnight confusion.

But no matter how sleepless and crazy the night has been, this is the face I see in the morning:


It's as if she's saying, "MOMMY!! It's been so long since I've seen you! You look beautiful with your disheveled hair and the dark circles under your eyes. I don't care if you have dragon breath; exhaustion suits you! Isn't it such a beautiful morning? I'm so happy to see you, I could just bust!"

And somehow the lack of sleep doesn't matter anymore. I think, Gosh, I love this baby! And I realize, I could stay up a million nights. This face makes it all worth it!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

From One Purdue to Another

Three months later and I'm finally posting something on our blog. There is a lot of catching up to do, so I'll try to give a synopsis of the last several weeks:

Elise made her grand entrance into the world on July 6th, following an exhausting labor. It all made sense, however, when we learned that our little girl wasn't so little after all: 9 pounds, 1 ounce to be exact!

I have never felt so physically spent in all of my life. Even smiling was difficult after 3 1/2 hours of pushing! Without D.J., I don't think I could have done it. He made a fantastic coach and patiently encouraged me through the entire process. He didn't even complain about sleeping on the pull-out vinyl couch in the hospital room (you can see it in the picture to the left-not exactly the epitome of comfort).

Grandma Young arrived the next day to help with the baby, and quickly fell in love. It was nice to have someone take care of Elise while we got some much-needed rest. Mom also helped pack for our move to Indiana and faithfully hand-watered our lawn every day in the record Texas heat.

Two weeks later, Grandma and Grandpa Crandall flew to San Antonio to meet Elise and help with the move. Thanks to Bob's master packing skills and Candy's ability to make gourmet dinners out of random frozen food, we stuffed all of our belongings into a single Budget truck and said a tearful goodbye to our friends and home at 13406 Purdue Valley (San Antonio) and headed to Purdue University.

One adventurous road trip later (including a blowout in Little Rock and record rainfall in Louisville), we arrived in West Lafayette--Boiler Country. Bob and Candy helped us unpack and settle in, then flew back to Washington. We don't know how we could have survived through the last several weeks without all of our helpers!

We live in a 3-bedroom basement apartment on Wyndham Way, with a big and sunny front window, fabulous neighbors, and a lawn with REAL (not Texas) grass. D.J. just started his 2nd module of classes at Purdue's Krannert School of Management and already has several interviews and an offer for an internship in the summer. Elise has visited 8 states (not counting airport layovers) in 3 months of life, and feels quite at home in her car seat. We also caught some live Purdue football before it got too cold!

We miss San Antonio, and will always feel a bit nostalgic when we think of our time there. From making life-long friends and buying and selling our first home, to welcoming our daughter fresh from heaven, a part of our "home" will always be deep in the heart of Texas.

Friday, August 28, 2009

And Baby Makes Three

Elise Madeline Crandall
Arrived July 6, 2009
at 8:07 pm
9 pounds 1 ounce, 21 inches long